Caron Cooper

Wedding Website: caronandgreg.weddingwindow.com
Not only is Caron Cooper Weller a self-employed writer/graphic designer/jack of all trades, but she is also a newlywed! She was born in Michigan, raised in Florida and “followed” her high school sweetheart to Texas, where she was educated in life and love (and academics on the side). After earning her degree from SMU and realizing “happily every after” wasn’t in the cards just yet, she followed her heart to Los Angeles, back to Dallas, then to Raleigh, before returning to her home in Florida—home is where the heart is, after all. It was at home where Caron finally found her true love. After four years of dating, she tied the knot with her Mr. Right on May 30, 2009. Caron and her husband reside in the Orlando area with their dog, Abbey Road.

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Pencil Us In …

This week, we’re giving props to a classic—the pencil. My inspiration? This adorable Save the Date that invites guests to “pencil in” your wedding, and provides the pencil to do so.

save the dates

Mélangerie Inc.

The ‘Pencil Us In’ save the date was created by Mélangerie Inc., a New York-based design consultancy comprised of founder and designer Elana Dweck, designer Lesley Weiner and intern Angela Higgins. The Save the Date is featured in the Knot Summer 2010 issue (page 44).

wedding save the date

Mélangerie Inc.

All information and colors are customizable, and a brief note can be included on the pencil itself. It comes with coordinating envelopes, mailing labels and pretty Japanese paper tape to pull it all together.

“At Mélangerie Inc., we celebrate festivity. We design bespoke paperie, gifts, memorabilia and event details for all occasions, big and small.”

wedding save the date

Mélangerie Inc.

Look deeper and you’ll find wedding constellations genealogy chart, invitations, family trees, wedding totes (discounts on 10 or more), welcome gifts, favors, event guides and more!

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Mélangerie Inc.

wedding ideas

Mélangerie Inc.

wedding details

Mélangerie Inc.

Follow Mélangerie on Twitter or Facebook. Or visit the Mélangerie Etsy shop.

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Beautifully ‘Benign Objects’

It is my pleasure to introduce the WedLoft community to Benign Objects, the brainchild of a former college roomie, Rachel Wiles! Rachel is a truly creative “designaholic” who makes art and design look effortless. Her ‘Benign Objects’ include lovely wedding invitations and suites, collage artwork, and beautiful branding and business design!

Best of all— Benign Objects offers DIY options! Or as Rachel calls it: PIY! Ever dream of creating your own whimsical invitations but don’t have a clue where to start? Order an invitation suite from Benign Objects, ‘print-it-yourself,’ put the invitations together and admire with pride!

Benign Objects will also work with you on map/direction cards, table numbers, programs, food/drink labels, thank you notes and much more. The PIY option is Benign Objects’ effort to make great design affordable to brides within any budget.

I could go on and on about Rachel & her Benign Objects, but instead I will share with you one of my favorites—her cotton Save the Dates! Love!

wedding save the dates

Benign Objects

Rachel: I wanted to create a keepsake, something beyond the usual Save the Dates. In fact, ‘Things We Keep’ was sort of the theme behind my wedding, and was carried through everything from the ceremony to the details. It was inspired by recurring thoughts of my deceased grandmothers and the things I keep that were theirs: a sewing kit from my Mamaw, bits of fabric and beads from my Granny’s nightgowns and old necklaces.

I wanted everything to have a treasured feel—something cozy and warm that inspires memories. Fabric emerged as a common bond between them. The use of our silhouettes as a design element was inspired by these cheesy plastic courting-couple silhouettes my Mamaw had on her guest bedroom walls. When I look at them now, they’re pretty awful, but as a kid I found them fascinating and would lie in bed and stare at them until I fell asleep.

vintage save the dates

Benign Objects

I spent about a month scouring and collecting vintage handkerchiefs from EBay, which I then had to wash and iron to prep them for printing. I ended up printing the handkerchiefs myself using the Yudu, a home screenprinting kit I got at Michael’s. If I had to do it over again, I’d farm this part out to a ‘real’ screenprinting shop.

Once the handkerchiefs were printed, they were ironed again and attached with ribbon to a card I had custom printed on both sides. One side featured a red pattern. I put the white handkerchiefs against that pattern for the men to whom we sent the Save the Dates (you know, for a more manly look); women and couples got a more ornate/flowery handkerchief tied against the lovebird background.

DIY save the dates

Benign Objects

save the date ideas

Benign Objects

The whole thing was stuffed in an envelope and sealed with a custom label and sent on its merry way. They were very well received, and since then I’ve helped several brides achieve the same sort of thing using their local resources and their own ingenuity.

DIY save the date

Benign Objects

DIy wedding projects

Benign Objects

For more delights including free downloads from Benign Objects, visit www.BenignObjects.com. To get your hands on a Benign Object, visit Rachel’s Etsy shop.

Enjoy!

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Bouquet Toss Ruminations

Your day is finally here. You and your fiancé said your vows. You danced your first dance as a married couple. You just cut the cake, and now it’s time to toss the bouquet. One. Two. Three! And it’s gone forever, only to be remembered in photographs.

bridal bouquet

Photo credit: Claire Corbin Photography

Although I am very sentimental, the thought of keeping my bouquet never crossed my mind. We left for a 10-day honeymoon less than 48 hours after the ceremony. I figured it would bite the dust before our return. And I’m OK with that. But in retrospect, I had options.

Consider keeping your bouquet for yourself. A bouquet toss is not a wedding requirement. You could still have your husband throw the garter. Or don’t throw anything at all! Another option is to get two bouquets—one to toss, and one to keep. More and more florists are offering two bouquets as part of the “deal.” If it doesn’t tip your budget, then go for it.

bridal bouquet

Photo credit: Jay Hsiang Photography

In either case, I would suggest preserving the bouquet if you want it to last. There is the DIY version of preserving it, where you tie a string around it or hook it to a hanger so that it hangs upside down until it dries out. For the daring brides, go a step further and visit your local craft store for silica gel or sand to preserve it. I found a good how-to explanation of both at essortment.com.

wedding bouquet

Photo credit: Everything but the dress

Or take it to a professional. Prices start at $100 and go up depending on the technology (freeze dry, press, etc.) and the finished presentation.

If you’re like me and not so worried about keeping the bouquet, then you have options too. Throw it or bestow it, as I like to call it! If you want to throw it, it may be wise to consider the crowd. (Click on the photo below to check out the entire bouquet battle—a classic!)

bouquet toss

Photo credit: Wink Photography

Spread the good fortune! One of my best friends tossed a bouquet that separated into multiple mini bouquets mid-air, allowing many of us singletons at the time to catch one. (Anna Michalska caught a similar toss below.)

bouquet toss

Photo credit: Anna Michalska Photography

With the throwing option, the chances of your maid of honor catching it could be significantly reduced. In that case, bestow it! Present it to your maid of honor, or your mother or the closest gal to your heart. Share a special moment with her in private, or toast her at the reception.

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Married … with Dolphins

So I was flipping through “the knot” magazine (Florida, Spring/Summer 2010), and within the first few pages, there was a double truck advertisement of a groom cradling his bride in his arms in the middle of a massive pool. It caught my attention, so I began examining the details. As I looked closer, I realized the couple was surrounded by dolphins. That’s right—dolphins!

unique wedding photos

Photo credit: Marineland

At Marineland, you and your mate can get married among dolphins. It’s certainly not for every couple, but I got a kick out of idea! Located in St. Augustine, Fla., the original vision for Marineland began in 1938 as an effort to duplicate the variety of marine life as it exists in the wild for the purpose of filming. In 2006, it became Marineland’s Dolphin Conservation Center, dedicated to fostering the preservation and protection of marine life.

dolphin weddings

Photo credit: Marineland

And now you can get married there too! “Exchange vows on the gently sloping beach of our dolphin habitat; include dolphins in your wedding memories and photographs, and dance and delight at the ocean’s edge as the sun sets in the distance.”

dolphin weddings

Photo credit: Marineland

Marineland can accommodate 400 guests and has an outdoor event area with protection from the elements. For more information, visit Marineland’s website or call 877-933-3401.

dolphin themed weddings

Photo credit: Marineland

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You’re Not Just Buying the Dress …

When it came time to shop for my wedding gown, I had lots of ideas about the dress! But I was also somewhat clueless about the process. From the moment I walked into Something Blue Bridal Boutique, I felt comfortable. Kristi Dole, the owner, and the other gals made the process so much fun and completely stress free.

wedding dresses

Photo credit: Something Blue Bridal Boutique

For convenience, I wanted to find a dress shop near my wedding location in Sarasota, Fla. Something Blue is a full-service bridal and formalwear boutique in Bradenton. Not only did they handle my fittings and alterations, but they also dressed and altered the bridal party and helped our mothers find their dresses. The boutique is truly a one-stop shop with style and charm.

To help you with your search, here are some of Kristi’s thoughts on dress shopping:

What should brides minimally expect when working with a dress shop?
Brides should expect to have a warm and enjoyable experience. Some brides come in knowing exactly what they want and some don’t, so it is our job to help them find what looks great on them. It should be a positive experience they remember.

What makes your business different from the competition?
I would like to say that our customer service makes us different. We try to help every person that walks in the door. I have personally hired someone in every age group so that every customer could feel comfortable.

wedding dress tips

Photo credit: www.CaronCooper.com

What motivated you to start your business? When?
When I was in college I worked at this location and realized that I loved doing this. I finished my business degree, and the previous owner called and asked if I knew anyone who would like to redo and manage the shop. One thing led to another and now four years later, my husband and I have redone the shop and added our own flair.

How do you choose what designers and styles to carry?
I pick designers for their demand, style, quality of the merchandise and their reliability to get the merchandise in a timely fashion. Sometimes cheap is not the best, because they’re not always reliable in their delivery of a special order. I take this part very seriously, because it is someone’s dream day.

How far in advance should brides purchase their gown?
A dress usually takes three-and-a-half months to four months to be delivered. Then you need time for alterations (at least a month to be safe). As soon as you find your dress, order it. As a shop, we have no way to know in advance if and when a dress will be discontinued.

How many alterations do you suggest to your brides?
You usually have two fittings—the first one is to make the adjustments and the second is to try the dress on and show you how to bustle it. Then we schedule with the bride when the dress will be picked up so we can have it pressed and ready.

wedding dress shopping

Photo credit: www.CaronCooper.com

I am not Something Blue’s only fan! Check out their reviews on WeddingWire.com or check the boutique out on Facebook.

No matter where you’re getting married or shopping for your dress, I recommend working with a full-service shop. It makes the experience!

Here are my favorite tips for dress shopping:
• Make an appointment. You want their full attention.
• Be prepared. Bring magazine pages or computer printouts with you. Or save some images on your phone to show the boutique clerk.
• Think ahead about your undergarments. If you are not comfortable baring your behind, skip the thong that day! You will require some help getting in and out of those gowns.
• Bring your camera. Not every shop will let you take photos, but the confident and customer-service driven shops will :)
• Wear appropriate shoes for the full effect. Whether you plan to wear heels or flats, bring something comparable.
• Take your mom or your sister or your best friend or all three! Try to limit your companions to three.
• Have fun! Feel free to daydream! You’re a bride!

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