Cheryl Lao

Wedding Website: tedandcheryl.com
My name is Cheryl Lao and I am a bride-to-be who finds excitement about anything wedding-related. My fiancé, Ted, and I got engaged in November 2008 and we’re looking forward to our wedding set for June 2010 in our hometown of Houston, Texas.  Event planning is something I’m very passionate about, and while it’s not something I do full-time, it is something I truly enjoy.  I have had a few opportunities as a Public Relations professional to plan and attend several events, and somehow find myself drawn to the specific and unique details of each occasion — most specifically, weddings.  After being a guest at weddings over the years, I am thrilled to execute all the ideas I have saved from all these memorable events to customize and make my own dream wedding a reality.  With all the planning that lies ahead and after starting the process looking through various magazines and Web sites, I found myself learning more and more from fellow brides-to-be through blogs and other forms of social media.  I am delighted to share what I have learned and have been learning through my wedding planning journey and look forward to sharing this experience with all of you!

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The Bridal Extravaganza Experience

I’ve been engaged for 13 months now and have found myself attending just about every bridal show that comes to town.   I’m not really sure if it’s the planner in me that wants to ensure I’ve been able to visit with every vendor imaginable in the city,  but with each show I attend, I always come prepared and end up walking away with an idea that I never thought of before.

Living in the digital age of researching and visiting many wedding websites, it helps tremendously to attend a bridal extravaganza so you can meet the vendors in person.   If you’re looking for a photographer, gown, transportation or linens, bridal shows have most wedding needs available and are a great way to help you compare prices and services.

Photo credit:  Pink Pearl Images

Photo credit: Pink Pearl Images

Some tips to consider when planning to attend a bridal show:

  • Pre-register.  Tickets are usually cheaper if you register early or online than if you just show up at the door.
  • Bring pre-printed self-addressed mailing labels to save time from filling out an information card at each vendor. Bridal shows also offer opportunities to win a variety of prizes, including a free honeymoon!  The labels can also be used for any prize drawings there may be.
  • Ask your fiancé to come along.  Mine did and while you may have your bridesmaids and moms to offer their opinions, it’s nice to have your fiancé with you to help you decide since after all, it is his wedding too.
  • Wear comfortable shoes.  A lot of time is invested in attending bridal shows.  Be prepared to spend approximately three to four hours to see all of the exhibits, visit with a lot of vendors and attend the fashion shows.
  • If attending a fashion show, be sure to grab your seat early as many other brides-to-be want that front row seat to watch every gown that comes down the runway.
Photo credit:  Brides Club.com

Photo credit: Brides Club.com

  • Ask questions!  For example, “Are you available on our wedding date?”  “What kind of services do you provide?”
  • If you’ve decided on your color scheme or theme, bring any swatches you may have to coordinate any items you will need for the ceremony or reception.
  • The amount of vendors at each bridal show can be overwhelming.  Remember to take notes and gather all the information from each vendor to be able to sort through later.
Photo credit:  Dream Weddings Bridal

Photo credit: Dream Weddings Bridal

Whether you’re a first-time bridal show attendee or a regular, bridal shows are a great way to help with the planning process.  For a bridal show near you, check out your local wedding websites or magazines.  I don’t think there can ever be too many to attend since you will constantly find a new idea that offers a fresh perspective that can be incorporated into your special day.

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The Wedding Video – Will you watch it?

The wedding video is a topic my fiancé and I have been contemplating for months as we are approaching our wedding day.  The questions that come to mind are:  Will we really watch our wedding video?  Should we save the money and invest it in something else for our reception?  Is it worth it to hire a videographer to capture every single moment of our wedding?  The answer for us – ABSOLUTELY.

wedding videographer

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We’ve heard both sides – from you’ll never watch it, to you will watch it every anniversary to relive the day you became husband and wife.  After listening to some advice from our friends and family, the one comment that has stuck in my mind is - “your wedding day comes and goes by so fast.”  By having a wedding videographer, he or she may capture moments that you may not have seen.  Videographers also have a unique way of telling your story.  Your wedding video will help you remember how you felt when getting ready, show you and your husband reciting your wedding vows during the ceremony, and give you another glance at your friends and family as they enjoy the wedding reception.

Photo credit:  Jennifer Stone Photography

Photo credit: Jennifer Stone Photography

As a bride-to-be, I can already picture the thousands of things that will be running through my mind, from the morning I wake up, to the moment we say “I do,” to the time we leave our reception.  With the months spent planning for the wedding, I can only imagine how hard it will be to treasure every detail and to let it all sink in.  Of course, we’ll have our photos that will help cherish memories of our special day.  But, for us as an added bonus, it will be nice to look back years from now to watch the fairytale that started our new life together.

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Incorporating Customs and Traditions

Being from different backgrounds, cultures and religions, my fiancé and I decided to incorporate both of our customs and traditions to signify our union as husband and wife.  From the moment we got engaged, including both of our ethnic customs and traditions was something that was very important to us.  The first item on our list was setting a wedding date.  In many Asian countries, an auspicious date is chosen for the couple to ensure a happy marriage.  This is usually determined by a fortune teller or priest who uses the couple’s birth dates to establish the wedding date.

Photo credit:  eHow.com

Photo credit: eHow.com

Once the wedding date was set, we began to think about other customs and traditions that we could include for our special day.  My family is from the Philippines and my fiancé’s family is from Taiwan.  Since we were getting married in the Catholic church, something I wanted to include in the wedding party from the Filipino tradition was the principal and secondary sponsors.  Principal sponsors are designated “godparents” to help guide and lead us through our marriage.  Secondary sponsors include couples who drape a cord or “lasso” and veil around the couple to bind them together as one.

Photo credit:  MPW Media Group

Photo credit: MPW Media Group

From the Taiwanese tradition, we wanted to include a traditional tea ceremony which is performed after the church ceremony to symbolize honor and respect for both families.

Photo credit: Dana Grant Photography

Photo credit: Dana Grant Photography

While wedding traditions and customs vary between different backgrounds, cultures and religions, incorporating them brings a unique and personal touch for you to share with your friends and family.

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Jazzing Up Your Reception with Wedding Linens

Spruce up Your Party with Elegant Wedding Linens

It’s official. You are now husband and wife. Now it’s time to head out to the reception and party! As your guests step foot into your wedding reception, this is the first impression they will have of the fun celebration that lies ahead. When planning your wedding, linen selection is just one of the many decisions that needs to be made and is an elegant way to help with the look and feel of your event.

Photo credit:  Wedding Linens.com

Photo credit: Wedding Linens.com

First on your list? Take a look at what is being provided by your reception space. The tables and chairs provided by the reception hall may not fit with your style and theme, such as the basic chiavari chair shown below. They also may appear worn down due to frequent use. Therefore, utilizing linens can help jazz up the ambience of your reception.

Photo credit:  Flickr.com

Photo credit: Flickr.com

Next, think about your choice of colors and fabrics for the tables and chairs. Reception halls sometimes provide basic white, ivory or black linens. Something to consider? Use bright and vibrant colors or satin and organza fabrics to help customize your reception’s look and feel.

Photo credit:  Wildflower Linens

Photo credit: Wildflower Linens

Lastly, remember to think about coordinating your centerpieces with your linen selections. Whether it be a simple overlay that is spread on the table or a chair cover with sash tie, be creative and give your guests a look they will remember.

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Can I have your autograph?

Guest books are a nice keepsake for couples to remember the loved ones they were surrounded by on their special day. From traditional to modern, here are a couple of ideas to consider for your cherished memento.

Standard Guest book for Weddings

Guest Book for Wedding

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The standard guest book is still found at weddings today allowing guests to sign in and write their mailing address for the couple to keep in touch with after the wedding. This is also helpful for Thank You cards and to verify if any addresses have changed since you mailed out your wedding invitations.

Framed Messages

Photo credit:  Beau Coup

Photo credit: Beau Coup

A personalized guest book frame is something the couple can display in their new home after the wedding. Well wishes are written around a favorite wedding picture of the bride and groom. Some couples also choose to include a silver plate at the bottom of the frame to engrave their names along with their wedding date.

Photo Guest book

Photo credit:  Inkubook

Photo credit: Inkubook

Something I have found more commonly at recent weddings is a photo guest book that includes favorite photos from the couple. This guest book is very similar to the standard guest book but allows the bride and groom to customize the book as an additional place to display photos of them.

A Unique Wedding Guest Book

unique wedding guest book

Photo credit: Martha Stewart Weddings

This is a unique idea that captures how long you have known your guests. A map of years can be put on display for guests to come and mark the year they met the bride and/or groom. Flags are provided at the sign-in table for guests to write their names on. It’s amazing to see the representation of how long you have known friends, family and loved ones.

Customized Notes

Photo credit:  Guestbook Store

Photo credit: Guestbook Store

I saw this guest book used most recently at a friend’s wedding in Dallas. It’s similar to a coloring book page but allows your guests to get a little creative with their wishes by using their artistic abilities to draw a photo of the couple. This is a cute idea and is something fun for the couple to look at together after the wedding.

Video Messages

Photo credit:  Flip Camera

Photo credit: TheFlip.com

The Flip Camera is an easy-to-use handheld HD camera that couples can choose as a modern guest book for guests to record their well wishes. While the videographer may also capture these messages, a member of your family or wedding party can also use the Flip Camera at the reception to record guests’ wishes before they are seated.

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