Melanie Salerno, WeddingWindow.com

Melanie Salerno

Website: WeddingWindow.com
Melanie Salerno joined WeddingWindow.com in March, 2008 in the midst of planning her own beach wedding. Melanie has a fine art background in painting and sculpture, is an avid crafter, and loves all things DIY. Consequently, her wedding featured many handcrafted elements, most of which she and her creative husband, Jim, made themselves. Melanie is excited to showcase unique, handcrafted finds and share some fun do-it-yourself tutorials for your wedding day. Keep an eye out for her monthly handmade finds and Eco-Friendly Friday tips.

Melanie and Jim currently reside in the North Shore of Boston with their two sweet kitties, Mr. Tough and June. When not perusing wedding websites and working on crafty projects, she can be found digging in her flower garden, cooking up yummy vegetarian meals, playing with her cats, or relaxing at the beach.

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Incorporating Butterflies Into Your Wedding Theme

“May the wings of the butterfly kiss the sun,
And find your shoulder to light on,
To bring you luck, happiness and riches
Today, tomorrow and beyond.”
~Irish Blessing

In many cultures the butterfly is honored as a symbol of positive transformation and rebirth. Including butterfly imagery in your wedding theme is a wonderful way to symbolize your transition to a new life as a married couple. Butterflies have remained a popular and timeless inspiration for artists and crafters. As a result there are countless ways to incorporate butterflies into your wedding plans. You could choose to add a few butterfly elements, or go all out with a full butterfly theme, even down to your wedding dress!

Photo Credit: Outlier

Photo Credit: Outlier

A bride could practically become a butterfly on their wedding day with Luly Yang’s fabulous couture dress, however below are some more subtle ways to incorporate butterflies into a bridal and/or bridesmaid outfit. There’s an abundance of butterfly jewelery and hair accessories available. You can even include the groom with details like butterfly cufflinks.

Photo Credit: pmdesigns09.etsy.com

Photo Credit: pmdesigns09.etsy.com

Photo Credit: EternallyLinked.etsy.com

Photo Credit: EternallyLinked.etsy.com

Photo Credit: Lotuslulu.etsy.com

Photo Credit: Lotuslulu.etsy.com

How about these gorgeous wedding shoes from Aruna Seth, decorated with Swarovski butterflies? The heels are available in hot pink, ivory, black and soon gold and silver. They also have ballerina flats sold in silver, black, gold, ivory, and nude.

Photo Credit: Aruna Seth

Photo Credit: Aruna Seth

Photo Credit: Aruna Seth

Photo Credit: Aruna Seth

There are so many beautiful butterfly reception details to choose from, from place cards to tags for your favors.

Photo Credit: TimelessPaper.etsy.com

Photo Credit: TimelessPaper.etsy.com

Photo Credit: TimelessPaper.etsy.com

Photo Credit: TimelessPaper.etsy.com

Photo Credit: MothtoaFlame.etsy.com

Photo Credit: MothtoaFlameStudio.etsy.com

Photo Credit: lemondrop09.etsy.com

Photo Credit: lemondrop09.etsy.com

These pins, made from real butterfly wings, would make cute favors for your guests.

Photo Credit: MiniatureRhino.etsy.com

Photo Credit: MiniatureRhino.etsy.com

Consider scattering realistic paper butterflies or butterfly-shaped confetti on the reception tables, or decorating the wall above your guest book or gift table with stick-on butterflies.

Photo Credit: clearcutcarfts2007.etsy.com

Photo Credit: clearcutcarfts2007.etsy.com

Photo Credit: ddeforest.etsy.com

Photo Credit: ddeforest.etsy.com

Photo Credit: PinkPerch.etsy.com

Photo Credit: PinkPerch.etsy.com

Let’s not forget the cake, which can be designed with butterflies, or you can add a whimsical butterfly cake topper. Even your cupcakes can be customized with delicate, edible sugar butterflies or decorative wrappers.

Photo Credit: The Yummy Cake Company

Photo Credit: The Yummy Cake Company

Photo Credit: Maisie Fantaisie

Photo Credit: Maisie Fantaisie

Photo Credit: buildersstudio.etsy.com

Photo Credit: buildersstudio.etsy.com

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Photo Credit: SugarRobot.etsy.com

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Photo Credit: CupcakeFlair.etsy.com

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Filed under: Our Team, Themes and Colors

Eco-Friendly Wedding Favors

For my wedding, I decided to make small ceramic tiles to give to each guest as a favor. This was no small feat, even with a pottery background and access to a ceramic studio and kiln. Before I decided to take on that crazy project, I found some great ideas for eco-friendly favors like live plants or organic candy. Here are some suggestions for earth friendly projects that your guests will surely appreciate.

Organic Chocolate Bar Favors
Endangered Species Chocolate offers 100% all natural ingredients including ethically traded cacao beans that are sourced and harvested from small family-owned properties. They also donate 10% of their net profits to environmental organizations that work to help endangered species and their habitats.

photo credit: Endangered Species Chocolate

Photo Credit: Endangered Species Chocolate

The Wildflower Seed Packet Favor
Your guests can add beauty to their yard with wildflowers grown from these seed favors. Botanical PaperWorks has 6 colors to choose from and will print the packets with your own custom text.

Photo Credit: Botanical PaperWorks Inc.

Photo Credit: Botanical PaperWorks Inc.

Or, you can make your own seed packets, with your choice of seeds. Vale Design graciously offers FREE pattern and design downloads online. Click on the images below for each project.

Photo Credit: Vale Design

Photo Credit: Vale Design

Photo Credit: Vale Design

Photo Credit: Vale Design

Organic Bird Seed Favors
Etsy seller, naturefavors, makes these lovely, affordable favors out of locally grown organic wild bird seed. Each favor comes with an optional personalized tag.

Photo Credit: naturefavors.etsy.com

Photo Credit: naturefavors.etsy.com

Organic Handmade Soap Favors
This customized handmade soap from unearthmalee is all natural, made from organic extra virgin olive oil, organic coconut oil, and organic shea butter without any chemical preservatives, parabens, or synthetic fragrances. And, the personalized labels are printed on seeded paper for your guests to grow wildflowers after your wedding.

Photo Credit: unearthmalee.etsy.com

Photo Credit: unearthmalee.etsy.com

Small Plant Favors
What could be more eco-friendly than giving a live plant to each guest? Kelly at Yes, Please shares some amazing photos and her experience making these cute succulent favors for her own wedding. She also sells them online at Succulent Love.

Photo Credit: Yes, Please

Photo Credit: Yes, Please

Donation Favor
Of course, you can always make a donation to your favorite environmental charity in lieu of favors. You can then print the details of the donation on recycled or even plantable seed paper, like these scrolls from Plant a Bloomer.

Photo Credit: Plant a Bloomer

Photo Credit: Plant a Bloomer

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Non-Traditional Wedding Rings

Wedding Rings with a Unique Twist

There are so many options for the couple that wants to symbolize their marriage commitment with a ring, but are looking for something other than a traditional wedding band. My husband finds most rings uncomfortable, and we also did not want a typical gold/silver wedding band, so we decided to look for non-traditional rings. After researching rings for several months, we still couldn’t make a decision before the wedding. We gave up, knowing that we would find the perfect wedding rings when the time was right. After our wedding, my husband ended up purchasing a pair of beautiful native Alaskan rings on a business trip to Anchorage, which we decided to wear as our wedding bands. Below are a few of the sellers I discovered on Etsy.com during my extensive search.

Artisan Impact has a three Etsy shops with amazing, handcrafted rings. I love the way they combine materials and textures. They also offer unisex bands for the couple that wants matching rings.

Photo Credit: artisanlook.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanlook.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanimpact.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanimpact.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanlook.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanlook.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanlook.etsy.com

Photo Credit: artisanlook.etsy.com

Wood is a wonderful, often eco-friendly alternative to precious metal and is also quite affordable. There are many sellers on Etsy that make lovely wooden bands, often combined with other materials. My sister and her husband purchased the Corian and wood bands and they are so lightweight and comfortable.

Photo Credit:  MnMWoodworks.etsy.com

Photo Credit: MnMWoodworks.etsy.com

Photo Credit:  MnMWoodworks.etsy.com

Photo Credit: MnMWoodworks.etsy.com

Photo Credit: naturalezanica.etsy.com

Photo Credit: naturalezanica.etsy.com

You can get almost any design etched onto a band, for a unique custom look. If you love nature, you can find rings imprinted with leaves or bark.

Photo Credit: SilverGarden.etsy.com

Photo Credit: SilverGarden.etsy.com

Photo Credit:  esdesigns.etsy.com

Photo Credit: esdesigns.etsy.com

I’m in love with the work of New Zealand based jewelry designer Ashley Hilton. The Art Deco Rose band was one of the rings I was considering.

Photo Credit: ashhilton.etsy.com

Photo Credit: ashhilton.etsy.com

Photo Credit: ashhilton.etsy.com

Photo Credit: ashhilton.etsy.com

With these custom Fingerprint Wedding Bands, you get your fingerprints imprinted on to the inside of the ring. What a perfect way to feel even more connected to your spouse!

Photo Credit: fabuluster.etsy.com

Photo Credit: fabuluster.etsy.com

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Filed under: Engagement/Wedding Ring, Wedding Planning

Local Flowers: An Eco-Friendly and Wallet-Friendly Choice

My husband and I spent a whopping total of $51 for all of the flowers at our wedding. We had my bouquet, three bridesmaids bouquets, flowers for our hair, boutonnieres, and several large arrangements for food tables at the reception hall. That total included the ribbon and floral supplies needed to make the bouquets.

Seasonal Wedding Flowers

Photo Credit: The Real Estreya

How was this possible? We took full advantage of the seasonal flowers available in our location for our wedding. And we got a little help from our friends. From the beginning, we knew that we would locally source as many elements of our wedding as possible. Wildflowers grow naturally with little effort, so no pesticides are required. If your flowers are seasonal, chances are they weren’t grown in a hothouse, which requires a lot of fossil fuels to heat. Plus, local plants eliminate the refrigerated transportation required to ship exotic or out-of-season flowers, thus lowering the environmental impact even more.

Photo Credit: Ian Hayhurst

Photo Credit: Ian Hayhurst

I’ve always been a big fan of wildflowers. My favorite flower is the daisy and, lucky for me, daisies were in full bloom for my June wedding. They were also free for the picking in gardens, fields and even by the side of the road, along with other beautiful wildflowers.

I asked my parents and a friend from Vermont to let wildflowers grow in part of their large yards. My mom showed up with a cooler full of daisies, and my friend had a huge variety of daisies, yarrow, yellow larkspur, and purple lupine, some of which she stopped to pick from the roadside on her way to the wedding. She also brought gorgeous pink peonies from her garden. My father purchased a few bouquets of flowers grown at a local farm, which included delicate pink calla lilies and purple allium. The morning of my wedding, we employed a few friends to make the arrangements and the bridesmaids and I had fun creating our bouquets together.

DIY Wedding Bouquets

Photo Credit: Chrissa Markos

If you decide to grow your own flowers, make sure you plan ahead and plant extra so you will have a large selection to choose from. I recommend visiting a reputable garden center for growing advice. Many nurseries do have a local flower section, if you don’t want to start from seed. I would also suggest having some friends or family members grow flowers as backup. My sister had a mini-disaster with the flowers she planted for her wedding when they were accidentally trampled by a construction crew at her apartment. We ended up picking wildflowers along the road the morning of her wedding, and supplementing them with sunflowers from a local farm stand. For my wedding, I noted the location and hours of several local florists, in case my plans fell through and I had to purchase flowers at the last minute. You can also inquire with your area florists and nearby farms about seasonal, locally grown flowers that you can order in advance.

Photo Credit: Jasmine&Roses

Photo Credit: Jasmine&Roses

Seasonal Flower Guide Resources:

http://www.theflowerexpert.com/content/growingflowers/flowers-and-seasons
http://weddings.about.com/od/weddingflowers/a/Season.htm

To see what’s available at local farms: http://www.localharvest.org

DIY Wedding Bouquet Instructions:

http://100layercake.com/blog/archives/2390
http://www.projectwedding.com/wiki/show/diy-how-to-make-a-wildflower-bouquet

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Unique Wedding Cake Toppers

Custom and Unique Wedding Cake Topper Ideas

I love the idea of having a custom wedding cake topper that expresses each of your unique personalities. Plus your topper will also serve as a treasured memento of your wedding day. I found all of this week’s handmade finds by searching for “wedding cake topper” on Etsy.com. I can’t rave enough about what a great resource Etsy is for customizing your wedding. Not only are there tons of cute, original handmade designs available, but you can find many sellers who can add custom personalized details to your topper.

If you find a style that you like, contact the artist about customization. Given enough time, most artists will be happy to collaborate with you on your own, one-of-a-kind cake topper. As you can see from the small sampling of options below, the possibilities are endless.

Sweet and Simple Lovebirds

Photo Credit: Middleburg.etsy.com
Photo Credit: Middleburg.etsy.com
Photo Credit: RedLightStudio.etsy.com
Photo Credit: RedLightStudio.etsy.com
Photo Credit: HeyMiemie.etsy.com
Photo Credit: HeyMiemie.etsy.com

Customized Figures:

Photo Credit: Lollipop Workshop
Photo Credit: Lollipop Workshop
Photo Credit: thesmallobject.etsy.com
Photo Credit: thesmallobject.etsy.com
Photo Credit: goodydevi.etsy.com
Photo Credit: goodydevi.etsy.com

These two are also a salt and pepper shaker!

Custom Sculptural Creations:

Photo Credit: WeddingsAndWire
Photo Credit: WeddingsAndWire.etsy.com
Photo Credit: WeddingsAndWire's
Photo Credit: WeddingsAndWire.etsy.com
Photo Credit: buildersstudio.etsy.com
Photo Credit: buildersstudio.etsy.com

Animals- from bunnies to sock monkeys

Photo Credit: bunnywithatoolbelt.etsy.com
Photo Credit: bunnywithatoolbelt.etsy.com
Photo Credit: melabo.etsy.com
Photo Credit: melabo.etsy.com
Photo Credit: mudcards.etsy.com
Photo Credit: mudcards.etsy.com
Photo Credit: SpiritMama.etsy.com
Photo Credit: SpiritMama.etsy.com
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Filed under: Our Team, Wedding Cakes