Category: Guest Experts

South Seas and Tahitian Pearls

pearl engagement ring

photo: Mikimoto Pearls

South Sea and Tahitian pearls are great alternatives to classic pearls. Both types of pearls are exotic and are perfect for tropical destination weddings by the beach. While the most common Tahitian color is black (or a yummy chocolate hue), the pearls also come in silver-white, green and peacock colors, purplish and bluish overtones. Tahitian pearls get their bold color from the oyster’s black lips and come the French Polynesian Islands. I recently saw a strand of pistachio green matched pearls which takes years to collect a matching set therefore the price tag goes along with the rarity.

colored pearls

photo: Mastoloni

pearl wedding rings

photo: Adam Neeley Designs

colored pearls

photo: Mastoloni

tahitian pearls wedding

photo: Aetleier Marisa

Tahitian pearls are so coveted that in the early part of the 20th century, the pearl was close to extinction; like today, the pearl was such a desired commodity that the oysters were hunted for their shells alone.

bridal pearls

photo: Mastoloni

gold pearl necklace

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Cultured South Sea pearls are found throughout the Indian and Pacific Oceans, in places like Australia, the Philippines, Indonesia and Myanmar. A truly grand pearl, the South Sea pearl is among the largest pearls found in the world; the average size of a South Sea pearl is 13 mm. The size of the mollusk (Pinctada maxima), the length of time the pearl grows in the oyster and the oyster’s environment all contribute to the pearl’s exceptional size.  The pearl’s size is only to be rivaled in color,  ranging from ivory and yellow to a silver-pink,.  Australia’s silver-lipped oyster produces creamy white pearls with a silvery overtone.  The golden-lipped variety of the Philippines creates one of the rarest and most valued cultured pearls.  The Golden South Sea.

If you want to be a more infinitely modern bride, why not indulge! Both types of pearls can add instant edge to a bridal look of luxury while retaining the sophistication of a pearl.

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Also filed under: Jewelry & Rings

Fabulous Pavé Wedding Flowers

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Photo Credit: Junolese

The term “pavé” is French for “paved” and basically describes floral looks that are completely covered with flowers having a relatively uniform profile. Everything is packed tightly together, for a lush, textural look. Wondering where you might have seen this look before? Well, this is the method used when they make those Rose Bowl Parade Floats, but also works well for creating unique wedding arches, centerpieces, pomanders, and escort card flower beds.

Rose Bowl Float Flower Close-ups…

parade float flowers

Photo Credit: Studio G

A fabulous pavé floral arch and pomanders down the aisle…

pavé wedding flowers

Photo Credit: BHG

Pavé flowers can be all one type–like a mass of carnations OR they can be a mixture of blooms, textures and foliages all similar in overall height. This method is also used when making flower-covered monograms, wreaths, pomanders, and floral ring bearer pillows.

wedding pomanders

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

floral centerpieces

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

Floral Pavé centerpieces

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

floral escort card display

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

floral wedding details

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

flower monogram

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

floral wedding ring holder

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

wedding flower details

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

floral wedding design

Photo Credit: Zuzu's Petals

white green wedding flowers

Photo Credit: Adam Nyholt, Photographer

wedding monogram display

Photo Credit: Kuga Designs

wedding pomanders

Photo Credit: Pepper Design Blog

floral wedidng frame

Photo Credit: Swann Soirees

hanging wedding flowers

Photo Credit: Bustled Blog

This look also works for topiary-style designs…

wedding topiary

Photo Credit: JSanchi21 on ETSY

floral wedding topiary

Photo Credit: Botanicals, Inc.

The ceremony arch made for Nick Lachey & Vanessa Minnillo’s Wedding last summer is one of my favorite examples of pavé flowers.

ceremony flowers

Photo Credit: TLC

I’ve even seen some very lush tables entirely covered with pavé flowers and textures…

floral wedding cake displays

Photo Credit: Cedar Hill Florist

floral wedding cakes

Photo Credit: The Wedding Chicks

Do you love this look? Are you going to rock some pavé flowers at your wedding? Here is some more decadent inspiration to win you over!

wedding floral design

Photo Credit: David Tutera

pavé wedding flowers

Photo Credit: Luxe Finds

Happy Planning!

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Also filed under: Design & Decor, Flowers

Man to Men

groomsmen blue ties

Photo Credit: 5ive15ifteen Photography

Q: What is the proper way in the wedding program to list the best man when there are two? My daughter’s fiancé is having two best men. Do we list the heading as Best Man, and then put both names or do we use the title “Best Men?” Thank you.

A: Congratulations on your daughter’s wedding. As you suspected, the heading would be “Best Men,” and they would then be listed alphabetically.

Jodi R. R. Smith is a nationally known etiquette expert and author. She is the president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting. You are invited to email her your etiquette emergencies at Salem@Mannersmith.com

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Also filed under: Etiquette/Support

A Weed By Any Other Name…

2012 wedding flower trends

Photo Credit: Google

There are a lot of flowers out there that our mothers and grandmothers might refer to as “weeds” but {surprisingly} some of them can actually function as beautiful wedding flowers. My favorites include Queen Anne’s Lace, Thistle/Eryngium, Scabiosa and Scabiosa Pods. These weedy blooms are totally trend-on and perfect for combining with more traditional flowers to create a unique, textural mix for both wedding bouquets and centerpieces.

2012 wedding trends

Photo Credit: Kara Schultz | Kio Kreations

wedding floral ideas

Photo Credit: Tara Etrheim | Kio Kreations & RBK Creations

wedding bouquet inspiration

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

unique wedding bouquets

Photo Credit: Tara Etrheim | Kio Kreations & RBK Creations

texture wedding bouquets

Photo Credit: Tara Etrheim | Kio Kreations

2012 wedding bouquets

Photo Credit: Hazelton Photography | Kio Kreations & RBK Creations

2012 wedding inspiration

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

2012 floral trends

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

2012 flower centerpieces

Photo Credit: Tara Etrheim | Kio Kreations

white wedding bouquets

Photo Credit: Kio Kreations

bridal bouquet inspiration

Photo Credit: Elizabeth Anne Designs

2012 boutonnieres

Photo Credit: Rebecca Shepherd Floral Design

2012 colorful bouquets

Photo Credit: Rebecca Shepherd Floral Design

texture wedding flowers

Photo Credit: Rebecca Shepherd Floral Design

2012 wedding trends

Photo Credit: Precious Pear Floral Design

bouquet inspiration

Photo Credit: Sophisticated Floral Design

bridal bouquet inspiration

Photo Credit: Southern Weddings

2012 colorful wedding flowers

Photo Credit: Grey Likes Weddings

blue floral centerpieces

Photo Credit: Lila B

2012 wedding flowers

Photo Credit: Cori Cook Floral Design

Do you plan to include some chic weeds in your wedding?!

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Also filed under: Flowers, Trends

Oops, Sent Save the Dates Too Soon!

wedding save the date

Photo Credit: found on WeddingByColor.com

Q: We mailed out our “save the date” notices about a month ago. Last week, our financial situation changed drastically. As a result, we need to cut our list to about 25% of our guests. We have been calling people personally to tell them the news. Thankfully, our friends have been very understanding of the situation, which is wonderful at this awkward time.

However, a friend we haven’t told the news to yet sent us a wedding gift. What is the proper way to handle this situation? Should I return the gift immediately, then call her to let them know I shipped it back and why I sent it back? Or should I call her to tell them news and offer to send the gift back?

A: Your situation is not uncommon. You actually have a number of options. The first is to proceed with your wedding as planned, just with fewer guests. The second is to keep the number of guests, but to rethink the actual wedding/reception. It sounds as if you have already decided on fewer guests, which leaves you calling those who are now disinvited. As for the friend who has already sent the gift. Call her immediately to let her know the new wedding plans and ask how she wants you to proceed. (You can send the gift back or return it at a store near you for a credit to her account.) If she is truly a friend, she will understand. Be sure to thank her for her thoughtfulness and well wishes either way.

Jodi R. R. Smith is a nationally known etiquette expert and author. She is the president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting. You are invited to email her your etiquette emergencies at Salem@Mannersmith.com

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Also filed under: Etiquette/Support, Paper Goods
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