I often wonder how brides decide which flowers they will incorporate into their wedding day. I, personally, consider flowers to be one of the most important aspects of any wedding. But there are truly thousands of varieties to choose from…how is a bride to decide? Should your decision be based solely on color, seasonal availability, personal preference, tradition or perhaps something a bit more meaningful? When I began researching bridal flower trends, I discovered that each and every type of flower has an actual meaning.
Want to know more? Below is a list of the most popular flower meanings:
Alstroemeria…aspiring
Amaryllis…dramatic
Anemone…fragile
Apple Blossom…promise
Aster…contentment
Azalea…abundance
Baby’s Breath…festivity
Bachelor Button…anticipation
Begonia…deep thoughts
Black-Eyed Susan…encouragement
Camellia…graciousness
Carnation…
pink-gratitude
red-flashy
striped-refusal
white-remembrance
yellow-cheerful
Chrysanthemum…
bronze-excitement
white-truth
red-sharing
yellow-secret admirer
Cosmos…peaceful
Crocus…foresight
Daffodil…chivalry
Delphinium…boldness
Daisy…innocence
Freesia…spirited
Forget-Me-Not…remember me forever
Gardenia…joy
Geranium…comfort
Ginger…proud
Gladiolus…strength of character
Heather…solitude
Hibiscus…delicate beauty
Holly…domestic happiness
Hyacinth…sincerity
Hydrangea…perseverance
Iris…inspiration
Ivy…fidelity
Jasmine…grace and elegance
Larkspur…beautiful spirit
Lavender…distrust
Lilac…first love
Calla Lily…regal
Casablanca …celebration
Day…enthusiasm
Stargazer…ambition
Lisianthus…calming
Magnolia…dignity
Marigold…desire for riches
Nasturtium…patriotism
Orange Blossom…fertility
Orchid…delicate beauty
Pansy…loving thoughts
Passion Flower…passion
Peony…healing
Poppy…consolation
Queen Anne’s Lace…delicate femininity
Ranunculus…radiant
Rhododendron…beware
Rose…
pink-friendship
red-passionate love
red & white-unity
white-purity
yellow-zealous
Snapdragon…presumptuous
Star of Bethlehem…hope
Stephanotis…good luck
Statice…success
Sunflower…adoration
Sweetpea…shyness
Tuberose…pleasure
Tulip…
pink-caring
purple-royalty
red-declaration of love
white-forgiveness
yellow-hopelessly in love
Violet…faithfulness
Wisteria…steadfast
Yarrow…good health
Zinnia…thoughts of friends
… and you probably know that a specific flower is also associated with your birth month. I have enclosed that list below for your reference as well:
January – Carnation
February – Violet
March – Jonquil
April – Sweet Pea
May – Lily of the Valley
June – Rose
July – Larkspur
August – Gladiolus
September – Aster
October – Calendula
November – Chrysanthemum
December – Narcissus
Whether you choose your wedding flowers based on color, aroma, personal preference or their actual meaning, flowers are a great way to transform any space and also help create a cohesive look from ceremony to reception.






























Getting Started
It’s a new year. It’s my first post on WedLoft. What better place to start than at the beginning? Here’s what to know as you start to think about your wedding flowers …
Photo Credit: Jeri Solomon
What to look for in a floral designer. You want to be sure that the person you hire will provide what you want. Will they setup all your arrangements and pin on boutonnieres? Do they rent props such as pedestals or chuppahs for Jewish weddings? Will you see a sample of your centerpiece before the big day? You may not want or need all of those things, but you do want the company to provide what you need. Not all florists do weddings. Make sure the company you choose knows the ins and outs of wedding timing, setup and any specifics like ethnic and religious traditions you might need. Confirm that you can see photos of their work, not just look at books and magazines during a meeting. Most importantly, you want to work with someone who you feel you communicate well with. Do you feel they understand what you want for flowers? Have they helped you envision the décor for your day?
What you need to know before you meet with a floral designer. Venues and colors. Your first meeting with a floral designer will be most productive if you’ve chosen your ceremony and reception venue. A designer will then be able to make specific recommendations to those venues. Likewise with color. If you know what color your wedding party is wearing or what color palette you are leaning towards for flowers, a designer can help you get more specific.
Photo Credit: Jeri Solomon
What you DON’T need to know before you meet a floral designer. You don’t need to know the names of flowers and seasons they are available. You don’t need to come with a list of which flowers come in your favorite color. You don’t need to make a list of every floral item you want at your wedding. A professional designer will use their expertise and guide you through the whole process.
What to bring to your first meeting. Bring visuals! Designers love visuals! Photos of your dress, bridesmaid’s dresses, and flower arrangements you love, and don’t like. And think of a few words to describe your wedding day- Romance? Classic? Fun? Sophisticated? Whatever they are they’re key for getting the creative juice flowing.
Photo Credit: Jeri Solomon
Now you’re on your way! Flowers can add so much beauty color and emotion to your wedding. Have fun choosing just the right ones!