We’ve featured a couple of Real Weddings on Wedloft (here and here) that have featured the fabulous tunes of Toast & Jam! This amazing Chicago based company offers the exact things we look for in top-notch wedding vendors – customization, experienced professionals and superior service!
Meet the Toast & Jam team …
Toast & Jam was founded by the fabulous Mary Nisi. Learn a little bit about her and the company below …
What inspired you to start your business?
I had a radio show in Chicago and one day a listener called in and asked if I’d DJ his wedding. I figured, why not? And the party was an absolute rager! I’d never really been to a lot of weddings at that point so I didn’t have any pre-conceived notions of what a wedding DJ should do. I didn’t know about all the wedding DJ gimmicks like the Chicken Dance and the Hokey Pokey, so it never occurred to me to play them. I just played it like I was DJing a house party and the guests and the bride and groom loved it. So that was the beginning.
What options for customization do you offer?
Our whole thing is that we customize the music to meet the couple’s taste, while also making sure that everyone on the dance floor is taken care of. You can’t go straight to Gaga – you’ve to start with some jams that will get Grandma and the older guests on the dance floor so they can have fun. But the music, and especially the cocktail and dinner music, should really feel like the couple themselves and should be in keeping with the vibe of the wedding. Our DJs get to know their couples well over the course of several months so that the DJ can get to know their tastes and put together a play list accordingly.
If you could give one tip to couples who are planning a wedding, what would it be?
When it comes to music, I would encourage couples to trust the professionals. We have some couples who are so excited about the dance portion that they want to pick out every song. We’re music junkies, so we totally understand that. But know matter how well you know your guests, you can never really anticipate exactly how a dance floor will respond. Your DJ needs the freedom to read the dance floor and pick songs accordingly. For example, Come On, Eileen is practically a guaranteed banger at every time. But I’ve had weddings where the 80s cleared the dance floor. It’s inexplicable, but the DJ has to work around it. That’s why you can’t put us in DJ handcuffs – you want your guests to remember a great dance party and we will make it happen if you let us.
What is something that most people don’t know about your biz/you?
We don’t have an unlimited number of DJs so when we’re booked up, we are booked up. Our DJs have to go through a pretty extensive training process and have to have very specific skill set and temperament so not just anyone can be a Toast & Jam DJ. Unfortunately that means that we often don’t have DJs for couples who want us for their weddings, but it ensures that the couples who get us love us!
What is your one must-have item/product/tool to have on-hand when you’re working?
Other than comfortable shoes, I always have to have extension cords and gaffe tape to hold them down – nothing ruins a wedding like a bridesmaid tripping over a cord and bringing a speaker down with her.
If you had to choose one phrase to describe yourself/your business what would it be?
Never stale, always fresh and sweet!
5 Things that make you happy?
1) Our clients’ first dances (Most of us still tear up at least once during a wedding.)
2) Records
3) When grandmothers raise the roof.
4) When angst-y teenagers forget that they are too cool to dance at weddings
5) Venues with easy load-ins
The Toast & Jam team have a great sense of humor too. Take a look at this witty video about the service they offer (created by I Do Films) …
Toast & Jam from I Do Films on Vimeo.








































Strings
Looking to add a classic touch to your wedding? A trio or a string quartet is the perfect solution to add a touch of class to your wedding. Having string musicians play during your walk down the aisle or cocktail hour is certainly an elegant way to go.
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Having a live trio or string quartet is a great idea if you want elegant and classic music playing at your event. Rather than having a DJ or band, this option provides lovely background music.
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If given enough time a lot of groups will be able to play some of your contemporary favorites as well as your classical standards. There is something to be said for hearing strings play as your guests walk into your venue that adds an air of royalty to the proceedings.
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Make sure you talk over with your lead musician on song choices beforehand especially if you desire specific songs. Some may be arranged for a quartet but if you’ve only hired a trio, it could lead to a lot of scrambling at the last minute. Another thing to make sure of is to hear a sample of the music that will actually play at your wedding or reception. Usually you will work with the lead or main musician of a group, but they may work with many musicians and you want to be sure you are getting what they promised.
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