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Caring for Your Dress

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With all the hustle and bustle of planning your wedding, many brides forget the small details of your wedding day. Of course, I am talking about the small details that you may not consider while caught up in planning the invitations, seating arrangements, decor, favors etc. Caring for your wedding dress is one small detail that many brides forget about. Here are a few tips I picked up while planning my wedding for prepping your wedding dress for the big day:

Make sure your wedding dress fits appropriately. Alterations are important, and some dresses take longer to alter then others.  On average, wedding dresses take 3 alterations/fittings to be altered perfectly to your figure. Don’t leave it to the last minute.

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Sample and vintage dresses need some special love. If you are a lucky bride who purchased a dress off the rack or a vintage dress at a fraction of the actual price, spend a few more dollars caring for your dress. Sample/vintage usually need to be cleaned, altered and repaired. Check to see if there is any missing beading or rips in your dress and make sure that you leave ample time to repair any damage before your big day.

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After alterations are completed, if you must store your wedding dress at your home, be sure to have enough space. Clear out a large portion of the closet, making sure that the floor of the closet is free of clutter. Hang your dress on a padded hanger; making sure it is out of its plastic garment bag. Shield the dress from dust and light by closing the closet door each time you open it.

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A week or two before the wedding, take your dress out of the closet, check to see if it has any wrinkles in it. If you feel the need to steam your wedding dress, you’ll still have time to get it done professionally. If the wrinkles are minimal, simply hang your wedding dress in your bathroom while the shower is running hot water. Make sure your dress is hung high and away from receiving any water damage.  This will release some of the wrinkles without leaving any water spots or marks from a home steamer or iron.

Happy Planning :)

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Fragrant Flowers 101

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While fragrant flowers look beautiful and can fill the room with a sweet, perfumey scent, they also can give you a headache, cause an allergy attack or make your food less-appetizing. So before you order bunches of Stargazer lilies to fill your venue, think about their strong scent. You can still use them, but think about using smaller amounts of them in with non-fragrant flowers. Avoid using them in bouquets since those are usually closer to faces/noses for longer amounts of time.

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The above arrangement shows how to effectively use a strong-scented flower like Stargazer lilies in with subtle and no-fragrance blooms. The only other flower that has a scent in this altarpiece is the stock. Another ideal thing about this arrangement is it is an altarpiece, and therefore not on a guest table or being worn by the bridal party–so its scent won’t travel too far and it will likely not annoy guests in the least.

Most flowers do have some sort of fragrance, but the majority of them are subtle enough that they will not cause headaches, alter flavors or cause allergic reactions. I have compiled a list of fragrant, sorta fragrant and fragrant-less flowers below for your reference…

Usually people are more affected by the pungent (strong) fragrances that come out of these lovely blooms:
Oriental Lilies (most commonly used: Stargazer and Casablanca varieties)
Gardenias
Lily of the Valley
Lilac
Hyacinth
Herbs
Paperwhites
Christmas Greens
Eucalyptus

red wedding bouquet

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I am a florist and even I am very allergic to Christmas greens and eucalyptus. Just being around the smell of them gives me a headache and eventually makes me sneeze or get a runny nose. I love the look of them, but they literally make me ill!!! While I do use these foliages, I try to avoid them whenever possible. In the above bouquet, I used boxwood instead of evergreens and I used seeded eucalyptus which I find less-offensive then spiral eucalyptus.

These lovelies are much less intense, but still fragrant:
Freesia
Stock
Peonies
Garden Roses
Sweet Pea
Some Rose, Sweetheart and Spray Rose Varieties
Dahlias
Stephanotis
Marigolds
Mums
Wax Flower

spring wedding bouquet

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This bouquet is the perfect example of having some mildly-fragrant blooms, like peonies and sweet pea, in with a bunch of non-fragrant ones like ranunculus and Billy balls.

And if you want to play it safe, these flowers have subtle/minimal-to-no fragrance:
Most roses
Hydrangea
Callas
Most Orchids
Ranunculus
Tulips
Lisianthus
Gerbera Daisies
Carnations
Iris
Amaranthus
Celosia
Billy Balls
Brunia
Gladioli
Kale
Larkspur
Asiatic Lilies
Snapdragons
Bells of Ireland
Anemones

purple wedding bouquet

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This bouquet combines non-fragrant kale, tulips, anemones, and lisianthus with lightly-fragrant sweet pea.

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Beauty Must Have: Your Wedding Day Survival Kit

You’ve been preparing for your big day for months, now you have to be sure you are prepared ON the big day!  All brides need a survival kit so here are your 10 beauty must haves.  Leave your kit in your bridal room or give it to your MOH to hang onto just in case!

1. First and foremost is fashion tape.  Trust me, no wedding planner leaves home without it.  It can fix a ripped hem in a jiffy or if you have a bridesmaid that is constantly doing the strapless dress shimmy to cover her chest, this would also be perfect for her.  Plus, look at this darling tin it comes in!

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2. You should have a mini/travel size hairspray for when your dance moves are more than your hair can handle.

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3. While you are getting your hair done, ask your hair stylist to give you a dozen hair pins just in case.

4. Blotting papers will take away shine without adding un-needed makeup.  They will soak up oil so you can still look great in pictures at the end of the night.  Don’t be afraid to use them on your groom too!

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5. Kissing your groom and kissing the cheeks of your guests will take that color right off your lips.  Be sure you have your lipgloss or lipstick handy.

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6. Dental Floss will be your best friend after your meal.  Keep that smile shining!

7. Find a purse size perfume.  You’ll need a little spritz at the reception, by that time, the perfume you put on before you said “I Do” will be wearing off.

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8. Tears may be falling so be prepared with some tissues.  Etsy has a lot of options for tissue holders that come in all different colors and patterns so you can coordinate it with your wedding colors!

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9. Eye drops will come in handy if you know you are going to cry to give your eyes a pick me up.

10. A compact mirror is a must!

bridal compact mirror

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Color 101 – Create Your Perfect Wedding Palette

Choosing a color palette for your wedding can be overwhelming. There are endless possibilities, and of course you want to pick the perfect, memorable mix for your big day. Sometimes it is best to take a step back and examine the basics of color theory. Start simple and then expand. Here’s a quick lesson on the color wheel; hopefully it will inspire you to do something colorful and unforgettable for your wedding day.

The color wheel can be simplified into 12 basic colors. A color scheme is made by mixing logical combinations of these colors. Once you have chosen the base colors you can then experiment with different variations of each color. Adding white creates different tints, adding gray creates different tones, and adding black creates shades.

Complementary

Complementary colors are colors found opposite each other on the color wheel. The contrast between two complementary colors creates a vibrant look.

AnalogousAnalogous colors are found next to each other on the color wheel. Analogous colors tend to create a soothing and elegant effect. These color combinations work best when they have a similar tint; this means your colors harmonize well if they are either all vibrant or all pastels, rather than mixing the two

Triadic

Triadic colors are evenly spaced around the color wheel. A triadic scheme creates a contrast similar to a complementary scheme but is more easily balanced. A good practice is to select one of the three as the dominant color, then use the other two as accents.

Split-Complementary

Split-Complementary schemes are similar to complimentary, but this scheme uses a color and the two colors adjacent to its compliment. These themes can be very colorful without a high contrast.

monocromatic

Monochromatic color schemes use one color that varies in lightness and saturation.  These schemes are clean and soothing. These palettes integrate nicely with neutral colors such as black, white or gray.

coolWarm

The color wheel can also be divided into cool and warm colors. Warm colors are more lively and energetic while cool colors give a sense of calm and relaxation.

Use these schemes for inspiration as you plan your wedding. Whether you’re seeking vibrant flowers, cool and calming bridesmaids’ gowns, or elegant centerpieces, the central qualities of the color wheel can make the tough decision a lot easier. Experiment and be bold, and see what colors are couched beside your favorites on the wheel. You might find some great combinations that surprise you!

What are the boldest colors you’ve ever seen at a wedding?

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Etiquette Emergency: Receiving Lines

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Q: My finance and I are paying for the wedding ourselves. We are debating having a receiving line. If we do, who should be part of it? Should our parents be included?

A: The receiving line is two fold. The first purpose is for those hosting the wedding to welcome the guests to the reception. The second is for the families of the bride and groom to be able to meet and greet guests. Even though the bride and groom are hosting the wedding in this case, it would be lovely and gracious to have your parents also in the receiving line.

The typical order of the receiving line is:

  • Bride’s Mother, Groom’s Mother, Bride, Groom
  • Sometimes the fathers also stand in line. When this is the case, the fathers follow the Groom: Bride’s Father and Groom’s Father
  • Occasionally, attendants will be included after the fathers: Maid/Matron of honor, and Bridesmaids. Rarely do ushers stand in a receiving line.

But do not feel obligated to “stand” on ceremony. You may arrange a receiving line which suits you and your wedding.

Jodi R. R. Smith is a nationally known etiquette expert and author. She is the president of Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting. You are invited to email her your etiquette emergencies at Salem@Mannersmith.com

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