Q: I am getting remarried in the fall. I am Jewish and have 2 teenage daughters. He has no children. Would it be more appropriate to have my 18 year old be my maid of honor or a friend? Also how can we involve both of my daughters?
A: Mazel tov on your upcoming wedding. Yes, there is a place in your wedding for your daughters. For a second wedding, the etiquette states that the ceremony is a bit more subdued. Since your parents have already walked you down the aisle once, you can choose to have your daughters give you away and act as your attendants. Once they have escorted you, they should stand either both on your side, or one on either side to balance the attendants for the ceremony.